Ginger's Guide To Life & Other Important Stuff

Wait…what? I’m gonna have to ignore everything you’ve written except for the ‘u post in ur blogs how u dont like men creepin on u for your profession. at some point what would you expect’ part. 

My profession (as well as my former profession) doesn’t give people carte blanche to stalk me/ignore the boundaries that I set when it comes to my interactions with people/think they’re entitled to do whatever they want whenever they want. No. My job is just that…a job. It doesn’t define me as a human being and it certainly isn’t an excuse for the shitty behavior of some human beings that have a hard time understanding the meaning of the word ‘no’. 

*I should probably clarify that the person that has stalked me for years is after the ‘real’ me, he doesn’t give a flying fuck about Ginger. Ginger just happens to be easier to get to & harass, so she gets to be collateral damage. If Ginger didn’t exist he’d still have done all the things he has done up to this point.*

But really, I love that I should expect to be stalked/creeped on/have people not understand that no means no because of my job. Was trying to kill me my fault as well? Was trying to blackmail me & the person I was dating also something I should have expected? Was hacking into all my stuff to help ‘keep track of me’ par for the course? Was stealing medication that I needed to live so that I would be so sick that I couldn’t fight back something that I was also deserving of? That’s actually the excuse that particular person has used over and over. I could go on for days, weeks, or months about all the shit that happened, but I won’t.

Blame me for something somebody else does that’s illegal….that’s not really working for me.